You may be thinking hey, just got a bonus cheque for good performing (if its possible in this age and climate) I am going to buy a suprise honeymoon holiday for my wife or fiance. No NO No, really dont do that, you may waste all your money and ruin your relationship.

A woman needs to be told before hand where she is going, if it fits well into her scheduale and most of the excitement is the build up, untill you go away. For the 2 months before hand if for example you tell her you would like to book a icket to vegas for honeymoon, let her google vegas, see what there is to do there and  get her excitement built up. Once see is excited book the holiday and discuss with her where you are going to stay, what you are going to do. Let her build the intinery.

If you suprise her on a honeymoon vacation, she might not be ready physically or emotionally, and she might not like the destination. By getting her involved instead of the exitement of the honeymoon vacation holiday being just 2 weeks it will be the build up as well, so you can have her happy and excited for over 2 months.

The excitement is probally the healthiest part of your relationship.

DOnt suprise her, you will have a much better honeymoon holiday or vacation if you can talk to her all along the way